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The
Family
Constitution is a document intended as the
spiritual and legal foundation for starting and running
an enduring and happy and
sovereign
family perpetually free of the encroachments of the
corrupt government and unethical family law profession.
It's main goal is to achieve "separation of family and
state" by showing people and families how to be self-governing
and entirely autonomous. The book is based entirely
on Christian principles found in the Bible which are
then supplemented with additional information only in
those areas that are important but where the bible is
silent, such as law and psychology. Even though
it is based on the Bible, we have written it to be appealing
to non-believers as well because it is as much a philosophy
book as it is a spiritual work. Two years of research
by the author went into writing the book. The
main focus of the book are Biblical models for RELATIONSHIPS
of all kinds, including:
- Human-God relationship.
- Family relationships.
- Husband-wife relationships.
- Parent-Child relationships.
- Employer-employee relationships.
- Relationship to governments and the world.
The end of the book gives
you instructions on how to get married without a state
marriage license by getting a common law marriage based
on a marriage covenant/contract. The advantage
of the marriage covenant is that state courts can't
alter or abolish or disregard or overrule the covenant/contract,
and the terms of your marriage aren't subject to the
whims of corrupt government officials passing some new
state legislation nor are they dependent on what state
or country you live in. Instead, the
only thing
the state courts have jurisdiction to enforce within
the relationship is exclusively and
only
the contract itself, which is fair and based entirely
on biblical Christian principles. This book is
inspired by the following scripture and painful experiences
of the author being unequally yoked to an unbelieving
and downright evil X-spouse:
"Unless the Lord [not the socialist government or
a marriage license it issues] builds the house [or the
family],
They labor in vain who build it;"
[Psalm
127:1, Bible]
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The Family Constitution draws on works from several prominent
Christian authors, such as:
- Dr. James Dobson of Focus on the Family Ministries, who
is a famous Christian media personality devoted to strengthening
families. The constitution has quotes from the following
products of his:
- Focus on the Family ministries radio program
- Love for
a Lifetime book, which talks about how to develop
a strong relationship that will last a lifetime.
- Love Must
be Tough book, about how to deal with difficult
types of sin in marriages such as adultery.
- Baby and
Child Care book (coauthored by Paul C. Reisser)
- The Holy Bible (New King James version).
- Chuck Swindoll's Insight for Living Ministries radio program
sermons, which are focused on spiritual development and strengthening
families.
- John Macarthur's Grace to You radio ministry sermons,
which are focused on spiritual development.
- C.S. Lewis'
Mere Christianity
book, which is a book that is great for skeptics because in
a very orderly fashion, it uses logic and reason and philosophy
to bring atheists to the conclusion that there indeed is a god.
- The book by Bob Phillips about premarital counseling called
How Can I Be Sure?,
which is a Christian pre-marital counseling book written by
a pastor.
- The book by H. Norman Wright and Wes Roberts entitled
Before You Say
I Do, which is a premarital counseling book intended
for Christians.
- David Hocking's book entitled
Good Marriages
Take Time, Bad Marriages Take More Time on building
a good and strong marriage (Christian).
- John Gray's book entitled
Men Are From Mars,
Women are From Venus on developing a good and strong
marriage (secular).
- Gary Stollack's book entitled
Until We Are 6,
which is an excellent secular book on psychology about how to
develop empathy and trust with your child.
- Don Dinkmeyer's book entitled
The Parent's Handbook,
which is a secular but excellent book designed to improve the
parent-child relationship and help people become better parents.
- Robert Wolgemuth's
The Devotional Bible
for Dads. It takes some quotes out of the
devotionals from that book.
- Barron's Law
Dictionary by Steven H. Gifis.
- The U.S. Constitution.
- U.S. Supreme Court cases.
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PREFACE
Testimonials
Preface
Table of Contents
Table of Authorities
Revision History
1. INTRODUCTION
1.1 Purpose of this Document
1.2 What We Believe
1.3 Family Priorities
1.4 Family Mission Statement
2. OUR RELATIONSHIP TO GOD
2.1 Role of Christians
2.2 The Holy Spirit in Christian Living
2.3 Christian Character and Behavior
2.3.1 Church
Involvement
2.3.2 Contentment
2.3.3 Discernment
in Choosing Friends
2.3.4 Faith
2.3.5 Forgiveness
2.3.6 Hating
the Things God Hates
2.3.7 Humility
2.3.8 Joy
2.3.9 Love
2.3.10 Obedience
2.3.11 Prayer
2.3.12 Persistence
and Endurance
2.3.13 Political
Involvement
2.3.14 Proper
Attitude About Suffering and Problems in Our Lives
2.3.15 Repentance
and Confession
2.3.16 Responsibility
2.3.17 Righteousness
2.3.18 Tithing
2.3.19 Wisdom
2.4 Our Family Prayer
2.5 Inspiration for the Christian
2.5.1 God's Promises
Overcome our Negative Attitude
2.5.2 Jesus Christ
is the Source of Our Strength and Self-Esteem
2.5.3 God’s Memorandum
to Us
2.6 Are You Good Enough To Go To Heaven?
2.7 The Problem Science Has with Jesus Christ
2.8 Foundational Readings
2.9 Proverbs to Live By
3. FAMILY RELATIONSHIPS
3.1 Role of Families
3.2 Getting Our Personal Act Together: First Things First
3.2.1 Proper
Attitude
3.2.2 Mutual
Respect
3.2.2.1 Appreciate
That People are Different
3.2.2.2 Respecting
Your Children
3.2.3 Stages
of Personal Growth
3.2.4 Dealing
with Personal Problems Effectively
3.3 Rules of the House
3.4 Family Event Schedule
3.5 Importance of Unity in the Family
3.5.1 What
is Unity?
3.5.2 Example
3.5.3 Evidence
3.5.3.1
Protect from Disillusionment and Provide for Fulfillment
3.5.3.2
Protect from parental inattention and provide for parental
involvement
3.5.3.3
Protect from emotional insecurity and provide for emotional
stability.
3.5.3.4
Protect from relational problems and provide for healthy
role models.
3.5.4 How
to Encourage Unity in the Family
3.6 Family Meetings
3.6.1 Purpose
of Family Meetings
3.6.2 Meeting
Schedule
3.6.3 Meeting
Sequence
3.6.4 Things
to Talk About at Family Meetings
3.6.5 Guidelines
for Family Meetings
3.7 Techniques for Correction
and Encouragement
3.7.1 Should
Christians Judge?
3.7.2 What is
Righteous Judgment?
3.7.3 The Types
of Sin and Correction
3.7.4 Why Should
We Correct?
3.7.5 Who Should
Do the Correcting?
3.7.6 Who Should
Be Corrected?
3.7.7 How Should
We Correct?
3.7.8 Under What
Circumstances Should We Correct?
3.7.9 What Happens
When We Don’t Accept Correction?
3.8 How To Communicate and Release
Difficult Feelings
3.8.1 Why We
Need Constructive Ways to Release Our Feelings
3.8.2 Effective
Listening
3.8.3 Disallowed
Modes of Communication
3.8.4 Why Love Letters, Prayer,
and Journaling Can Help
3.8.4.1 Realistic
Expectations
3.8.4.2 How
We Learn to Communicate
3.8.4.3 If
Our Past Were Different
3.8.5 The Love
Letter Technique
3.8.5.1 STEP
1: Writing a Love Letter
3.8.5.2 STEP
2: Writing a Response Letter
3.8.5.3 STEP
3: Sharing your Love Letter and Response Letter
3.8.5.4 What
to Do If Your Partner Can’t Respond Lovingly
3.8.5.5 Making
It Safe for Love Letters
3.8.5.6 When
to Write Love Letters
3.8.6 Prayer
3.8.7 Journaling
3.9 How to Resolve Family Conflicts
3.9.1 Rules For
Conflict Resolution
3.9.2 Should
We Argue In Front of the Children?
3.9.3 When Siblings
Engage in Combat
3.9.4 How to
Hold "Family Court"
3.10 Emotional and Verbal Abuse
3.10.1 How do
people become emotional abusers?
3.10.2 Dichotomies
of the Emotional or Verbal Abuser
3.10.2.1
Inequality Versus Equality
3.10.2.2
Manipulation Versus Mutuality
3.10.2.3
Hostility Versus Goodwill
3.10.2.4
Control Versus Intimacy
3.10.2.5
Negation Versus Validation
3.10.3 Things
That Most Abusers Have In Common
3.10.4 How to
Determine if Your Partner is an Abuser
3.10.5 How to
Recognize the Emotional Signs of Abuse in Yourself
3.10.6 Characteristics
of Verbal Abuse
3.10.7 Categories
of Verbal Abuse
3.10.8 Categories
of Behavioral Abuse
3.10.9 Checklist
for Crazymaking
3.10 Sexual Morality
4. HUSBAND-WIFE RELATIONSHIP
4.1 Dating Etiquette
4.1.1 The Stages
of Intimacy
4.1.2 General
Sexual Guidelines for Dating
4.1.3 Principles
of Loving Toughness During Courtship/Dating
4.1.4 Guidelines
for Parents Dealing with Dating Children
4.2 Premarital Inventory and
Planning
4.2.1 Questions
to ask a prospective spouse
4.2.1.1 Family
Background
4.2.1.2 Sexuality
4.2.1.3 Children
4.2.1.4 Communication
4.2.1.5 Decisions
in Marriage
4.2.1.6 Finances
4.2.1.7 Insight
Questions
4.2.1.8 Religion
4.2.2 Danger
Signs: What to watch out for
4.2.3 Sample
Wedding Ceremony
4.2.4 A Poem
for the Marriage Day
4.2.5 A Marriage
Benediction
4.3 Purpose of Marriage
4.4 Role of Husbands
4.4.1 How Can
a Husband Be His Wife’s Best Friend?
4.4.2 What Does
"Love Your Wife" Mean?
4.4.3 What Does
It Mean to "Honor Your Wife"?
4.5 Role of Wives
4.6 Mission/Vision Statement for the Marriage
4.7 Marriage Event Schedule
4.8 Crucial Components
of Marriage
4.8.1 Common
Spiritual Beliefs and Faith
4.8.2 Shared
Commitment
4.8.3 Love
4.8.4 Communication
4.8.4.1 What
Kills Communication
4.8.4.2 What
Creates or Enhances Communication
4.8.5 Sex and
Affection
4.8.5.1 Purposes
of Sex and Affection
4.8.5.2 The
Four Fundamental Laws of Sexual Satisfaction in Marriage
4.9 Basic Rights in a Relationship
4.10 How to be Best Friends with Your Spouse
4.11 Dealing with
Differences Between Men and Women
4.11.1 Comparison
Between Men and Women
4.11.2 Behaviors
Women Can Use to Score Points with Men
4.11.3 Behaviors
Men Can Use to Score Points with Women
4.12 Money: The Great Mischief
Maker
4.12.1 Facing
Money Problems
4.12.1.1
Ownership
4.12.1.2
Security
4.12.1.3
Greed
4.12.1.4
Control
4.12.2 How Should
We Look at Our Money?
4.12.2.1
Provide Basic Material Needs
4.12.2.2
Support the Work of the Gospel
4.12.2.3
Help Others in Time of Need
4.12.2.4
Enjoy the Blessings of God
4.12.3 Don’t
Let Money Control Your Life!
4.12.3.1
Honor the Lord First
4.12.3.2
Stay Out of Debt
4.12.3.3
Be Content with What You Have
4.12.3.4
Depend on the Husband/father to Provide
4.12.3.5
Invest Wisely for the Future
4.12.3.6
Live by a Budget
4.12.3.7
Don’t Worry About Material Things
4.13 Marriage and Family Counseling
4.14 Divorce
4.14.1 What God
says about it
4.14.2 What Kids
Should Do If Their Parents are Divorced
4.14.3 Statistics
on Divorce
4.15 The Humorous Side of Marriage
4.15.1 Women’s
Rules for Relationships
4.15.2 Men’s
Rules for Relationships
4.15.3 Marriage
Dictionary
4.15.4 Letter
to my Wife/Husband
4.15.5 Quotes
on Marriage
4.15.6 The Five
Kinds Of Sex
4.15.7 Marriage
as Slavery
4.15.8 Tips for
the Marriage Minded
4.15.9 The Marriage
License
4.15.10 The Lifetime
Haircut
4.15.11 The Husband
as Anti-Hero
4.15.12 How the
Predatory Female Uses Guilt to Manipulate Males
5. PARENT-CHILD RELATIONSHIP
5.1 Goals of Parenting
5.2 Role of Parents
5.2.1 The First
Parent: God
5.2.2 Role of
Fathers
5.2.3 Role of
Mothers
5.3 Role of Children
5.4 Characteristics of Empathetic and Effective Caregiver Communications
5.5 Importance of Encouragement
5.6 Types of Misbehavior
5.6.1 Attention-Motivated
Misbehaviors
5.6.2 Power-Motivated
Misbehaviors
5.6.3 Revenge-Motivated
Misbehaviors
5.6.4 Displaying
Inadequacy-Motivated Misbehaviors
5.7 How Parents Can Fight Their Irrational Beliefs
5.8 Disciplinary Communications
Fostering Social Responsiveness and Competence
5.8.1 Positive
and Negative Reinforcement
5.8.2 Punishment
5.8.3 Disciplinary
Communications
5.8.4 Communication
of Adult Feelings and Expectations
5.8.5 Examples
of Good Disciplinary Communication
5.8.5.1 Sibling
Problems
5.8.5.2 Peer
Aggression
5.8.5.3 Stealing
and Lying
5.8.5.4 Child
Desires for Immediate Gratification
5.8.5.5 Child
Sexual Behavior
5.8.6 Summary
5.9 Discipline and Problem Solving
Techniques
5.9.1 Strategies
for Identifying and the Motive of the Misbehavior and Applying
Discipline
5.9.2 Who Owns
the Problem?
5.9.3 Discipline
and the Consequences for Misbehavior
5.9.4 Cooperative
Problem-Solving Techniques
5.9.5 Talking
Through Problems by Exploring Alternatives
5.9.6 Use of
I-Messages
5.10 Answers to Common Questions
Children Ask
5.10.1 Does God
really know me?
5.10.2 Does God
want me to be afraid of him?
5.10.3 Does God
need me to pray so that he can do what he wants to do?
5.10.4 Will God
punish me when I sin—even if I don’t know I’m sinning?
5.10.5 Does God
ever get sad?
5.10.6 Should
I tell the truth even if it hurts someone’s feelings?
5.10.7 Is saying
"I’m sorry" the same as repenting?
5.10.8 Is being
proud good or bad?
5.10.9 If prayer
really works, why don’t doctors prescribe it?
5.10.10 If I’m
supposed to love everybody, why shouldn’t I be friends with
everybody?
5.10.11 Why do
we have to follow so many rules?
5.10.12 Why do
good people suffer?
5.10.13 Why do
I sometimes feel like God’s not there?
5.10.14 Does
God hate anything?
5.10.15 If someone
hurts me, why can’t I hurt that person back? 5-9
5.10.16 Why do
we have to forgive people who hurt us?
5.10.17 How do
I love someone I don’t even like?
6. EMPLOYER-EMPLOYEE RELATIONSHIP
6.1 Role of bosses
6.2 Role of employees
6.3 The Four Types of Workers
6.4 The Nature of Work
6.5 Principles of Leadership
6.6 Mission Statement for Effective and Ethical Management
6.7 The Humorous
Side of Work
6.7.1 Prison
Life vs. Full-Time Job
6.7.2 Murphy’s
26 Laws of Bad Management
6.7.3 Phases
of a Project
7. RELATIONSHIP TO GOVERNMENTS AND THE WORLD
7.1 Biblical Law: The Foundation of All Law
7.2 Natural Order
7.3 Rights v. Privileged
7.3.1 Rights Defined and Explained
7.3.2 Fundamental Rights: Granted by God and Cannot be
Regulated by the Government
7.3.3 What is the Difference Between a "Right" and a
"Privilege"
7.4 Government
7.4.1 The purpose of government: protection from harm and
evil
7.4.2 How government and God compete to provide "protection"
7.4.3 The purpose of income taxes: government protection
of assets of the wealthy
7.4.4 Government as idolatry/religion
7.4.5 Socialism is Incompatible with Christianity
7.4.6 Government-instituted slavery using "privileges"
7.4.7 Civil Disobedience to Corrupt Governments is a Biblical
Mandate
7.4.8 Code of Ethics for Government Service
7.5 Role of Law
7.6 Role of Politicians and Rulers
7.7 Role of Citizens
7.8 The Nature of Property
7.9 Thomas Jefferson on Property Rights and the Foundations
of Government
7.10 Testaments of Truth
7.11 The Freedom Test
7.11.1 Are You Free or Do You Just Think You Are?
7.11.2 Key to Answers
7.11.3 Do you Still Think You Are Free?
7.12 Sources of Government Tyranny
and Oppression
7.12.1 Deception:
The Religion of SATAN and our government
7.12.2 Presumption
7.12.3 Illegal
Acts and Legal Obfuscation
7.12.4 Propaganda
and Political Warfare
7.12.5 Willful
Ignorance of Public Servants
7.12.6 Compelled
Income Taxes
7.12.7 Government Identification Numbers: Mark of the Beast
7.12.7.1
Coercion: The Enumeration At Birth Program
7.12.7.2
Coercion: Denying benefits for those who refuse to provide
Socialist Security Numbers
7.12.8 Paper Money
7.12.8.1 The Founders Rejected Paper Currency
7.12.8.2 War of Independence Fought Over Paper Money
7.12.8.3 President Thomas Jefferson: Foe of Paper Money
7.12.8.4 Wealth confiscation through inflation
7.12.8.5 The Most Dangerous Man in the Mid South
7.12.9 The Federal Reserve
7.12.4.1 The Federal Reserve Explained
7.12.4.2 Lewis v. United States Ruling
7.12.4.3 Federal Reserve Never Audited
7.12.10 Debt
7.12.11 Surrendering Freedoms in the Name of "Government-Induced
Crises"
7.12.12 Judicial Tyranny
7.12.12.1 Conflict of Interest and Bias of Federal Judges
7.12.12.2 Sovereign and Official Immunity
7.12.12.3 Cases Tried Without Jury
7.12.12.4 Attorney Licensing
7.12.12.5 Protective Orders
7.12.12.6 "Frivolous" Penalties
7.12.12.7 Fifth Amendment Abuses
7.12.12.8 Nonpublication of Court Rulings
7.12.12.8.1 Background
7.12.12.8.2 Publication Procedures Have Been Changed
Unilaterally
7.12.12.8.3 Publication is Essential to a Legal
System Based on Precedent
7.12.12.8.4 Citizens In a Democracy are Entitled
to Consistent Treatment from the Courts
7.12.12.8.5 Operational Realities of Non-Publication
7.12.12.8.6 Impact Of Non-Publication Inside the
Courts
7.12.12.8.7 Openness
7.12.12.8.8 Constitutional Considerations
7.12.12.8.9 Opinions Are Necessary, Even in "Insignificant
Matters"
7.12.12.8.10 Questions to Ponder
7.13 A Biblical Response to Those Who Say We Should Disarm
7.14 Living in a Pagan/Godless Culture
7.15 How to Teach Your Children About Politics
7.16 The Bill of No Rights
7.17 Am I A Bad American?--Absolutely NOT!
7.18 If Noah Were Alive Today
7.19 Prayer at the Opening of the Kansas Senate
7.20 The Ghost of Valley Forge
7.21 Last Will and Testament of Jesse Cornish
7.22 My Country?
7.23 Grateful Slave
7.24 Economics 101
8. SIN AND DYSFUNCTIONAL
BEHAVIORS
8.1 Sin Defined
8.2 Sin as Spiritual Addiction/Slavery
8.3 Types of Sin
8.3.1 Abortion
8.3.2 Adultery
8.3.2.1 Damaging
affects of Adultery
8.3.2.2 Techniques
for preventing and dealing with adultery
8.3.3 Anger
8.3.3.1 The
Causes of Anger
8.3.3.2 Anger
in the Home
8.3.3.3 Reactions
to Anger
8.3.3.4 Overcoming
Anger
8.3.4 Envy
8.3.4.1 Envy
Defined
8.3.4.2 Envy
in the Church
8.3.4.3 Envy
in the World
8.3.4.4 Wanting
to be Envied
8.3.4.5 Envy
and Women
8.3.4.6 Envy
is Destructive
8.3.4.7 Overcoming
Envy
8.3.4.8 Wisdom
Conquers Envy
8.3.5 Gossip and Slander
8.3.6 Greed
8.3.6.1 Kingdom
Perspectives
8.3.6.2 The
Eucharistic Lifestyle
8.3.6.3 Greed
and International Problems
8.3.6.4 Greed
in Unions
8.3.6.5 Greed
and Prophecy
8.3.6.6 Overcoming
Greed
8.3.6.7 A
Warning to Yuppies
8.3.7 Homosexuality
8.3.8 Idolatry
8.3.9 Laziness
8.3.9.1 Laziness
in Loving
8.3.9.2 Laziness,
Love, and Will
8.3.9.3 Too
Lazy to Nurture
8.3.9.4 Too
Lazy to Enjoy
8.3.9.5 Too
Lazy to Become
8.3.9.6 A
Style of Procrastination
8.3.9.7 Getting
Rid of Sloth
8.3.10 Lust
8.3.10.1 While
You’re Waiting for the Second Coming
8.3.10.2 Lust
As Illusion
8.3.10.3 Lust
as Immaturity
8.3.10.4 Lust
as a Denial of Death
8.3.10.5 The
Insights of Feminists
8.3.10.6 How
to Conquer Lust
8.3.10.7 Alternatives
to Lust
8.3.11 Lying
8.3.12 Murder
8.3.13 Pride
8.3.13.1
Pride Infects the Spirit
8.3.13.2
Pride Ruins Relationships
8.3.13.3
Pride Destroys Those We Love
8.3.13.4
Pride Can Destroy A Nation
8.3.13.5
Develop Healthy Humility
8.3.14 Selfishness
8.3.15 Sexual
promiscuity/fornication
8.3.16 Unwillingness
to submit sexually to our marriage partner
8.4 Dysfunctional Behaviors
8.4.1 Authoritarianism
8.4.2 Chemical
addictions
8.4.3 Cyberaddiction
8.4.3.1 Symptoms
8.4.3.2 Treatment
8.4.4 Gambling
addiction
8.4.4.1 Symptoms
8.4.4.2 Treatment
8.4.5 Obsessive/compulsive
(OCD) disorders
8.4.5.1 Symptoms
8.4.5.2 Treatment
8.4.6 Phobias
8.4.7 Poor communication
skills
8.4.8 Pornography
addiction
8.5 Common Sinful Excuses to
Evade Responsibility for Sin
8.5.1 It's an
Obsession
8.5.2 Its an
Addiction
8.5.3 It's an
Impulse
8.5.4 It's Hormonal
8.5.5 It's a
Sickness/disease
8.5.6 It's a
Compulsion
8.5.7 It's a
Weakness
8.5.8 It's Genetic
8.5.9 It's Environmental
8.5.10 "It's
my Upbringing--The Way I Was Raised."
8.5.11 "It's
My Personality"
8.5.12 "It's
My Disposition"
8.5.13 "It's
Chemical"
8.5.14 "It's
a Bad Habit"
8.5.15 "The Devil
Made Me Do It"
8.5.16 "It's
My ___________'s Fault"
8.5.17 "That's
Just the Way I Am"
8.5.18 "I Can't
Help It"
8.5.19 "I Was
Born That Way"
8.5.20 "I'm Diagnosed
as Having ______."
8.5.21 "It's
Not Hurting Anyone."
8.5.22 "Who Are
You to Judge?"
8.5.23 "Where
is Your Love?"
8.5.24 "Jesus
Accepts Me, Why Can't You?"
8.5.25 "Nobody's
Perfect"
8.5.26 "Don't
Play God With Me."
8.5.27 "We're
Mutually Consenting Adults"
8.5.28 "Everybody
Does It"
8.5.29 "It's
Adult Entertainment
8.5.30 "It's
My Body"
8.5.31 "It's
Not a Sin to Me"
8.6 The Solution for Sin
8.6.1 Jesus'
Advice on How to Deal With Sin
8.6.2 Personal
Relationship with God
8.6.3 God's Grace
8.6.4 Sanctification:
To be set apart
8.6.5 The Holy
Spirit
8.6.5.1 Satan
Condemns, the Holy Spirit Convicts
8.6.5.2 Truth
Versus Condemnation
8.6.5.3 Jesus'
Conviction of Sin
8.6.6 Controlling
the Mind
8.7 Diagnosing Sin in Interpersonal Relationships
8.8 Statistics On Sin in the Bible
9. LEGAL ISSUES AND AGREEMENTS
9.1 Introduction
9.2 Religious Freedom in the Public Schools
9.2.1 The First
Amendment
9.2.2 The Establishment
Clause
9.2.3 Freedom
of Association
9.2.4 Right to
Know
9.3 Five Reasons Why Christians
Should Not Obtain a State Marriage License
9.3.1 REASON
#1. The definition of a "license" demands that we not obtain
one to marry.
9.3.2 REASON
#2. When you marry with a marriage license, you grant the
State jurisdiction over your marriage.
9.3.3 REASON
#3. When you marry with a marriage license, you place yourself
under a body of law which is immoral.
9.3.4 REASON
#4. The marriage license invades and removes God-given parental
authority.
9.3.5 REASON
#5. When you marry with a marriage license, you are like
a polygamist.
9.3.6 When Does
the State Have Jurisdiction Over a Marriage?
9.3.7 History
of Marriage Licenses in America
9.3.8 What Should
We Do?
9.4 Fiduciary Duty
9.5 Record Keeping
9.6 Asset and Liability Inventory at the Time of Marriage
9.7 The State of California’s Default Pre-Nuptial agreement
9.8 Questions And Answers for Prospective Spouses Who Can’t
Accept Having to Sign a Pre-Nuptial Agreement
9.8.1 Doesn’t
post-divorce spousal support make marriage into the equivalent
of prostitution?
9.8.2 Don’t the
legal aspects of marriage amount to legislating morality?
9.8.3 Do pre-nups
make divorce easier to get?
9.8.4 Are pre-nups
based on mistrust?
9.8.5 Why get
married at all if you are going to have a pre-nuptial agreement?
9.8.6 So how
do I keep my husband faithful if I don’t have a big legal
stick to beat him ruthlessly with when he misbehaves?
9.8.7 Do pre-nuptial
agreements put too much of the focus of the relationship
on selfishness and materialism?
9.8.8 Do pre-nuptial
agreements have risk reduction advantages for both spouses
over the state's default pre-nuptial agreement?
9.8.9 Doesn't
the State's Default Prenuptial Agreement Encourage Domestic
Violence or Spousal Abuse?
9.8.10 What should
I tell my fiance about why I feel the need for a pre-nuptial
agreement?
9.8.11 Wouldn't
I be the laughing stock of all my family or friends or coworkers
if I signed a prenuptial agreement?
9.8.12 Is it
true that most family law attorneys don't like pre-nuptial
agreements and advise against them simply because they eliminate
the need to litigate and thereby decrease profits?
9.8.13 Aren't
prenuptial agreements supposed to give me MORE freedom and
autonomy and not less? It doesn't seem like this one does.
9.9 Pre-Nuptial/Marital Agreement
10. DEFINITIONS