This section is dedicated to helping spouses who have been abandoned or abused by their former spouse to litigate their case effectively so their rights and assets are protected from unethical and greedy lawyers and excessive litigation.  We point you to software tools, internet legal resources, books, and self-help clinics that can affordably assist you in your legal fight.  We feel that such resources are important considering the high divorce rate and given the fact that over 90% of all cases heard in San Diego County now involve at least one pro per litigant on either side (a pro per litigant is a person who is representing themself because they can't afford a lawyer).








  • The right kind of authority leads to the right kind of response
  • One way to live together and never have an argument is for both husband and wife to be hard-of-hearing...and to share the same hearing aid.
  • What's the best way to have your husband remember your anniversary? Get married on his birthday
  • Besides "I love you", what three words does a wife want to hear most? "I'll fix it."
  • Anybody who claims that marriage is a fifty-fifty proposition doesn't know the first thing about women or fractions.
  • All men are born free and equal, but then lots of them grow up and get married.
  • Marriage is the only sport in which the trapped animal has to buy the license.
  • Marriage is better when both the husband and wife decide that what they have is better than what they are missing.
  • A husband should never question his wife's judgment. Look whom she married!
  • A recent survey shows that the commonest form of marriage proposal these days consists of the words: "You're WHAT???"
  • Dinner will be served at the sound of the smoke alarm.