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Constitution is a document intended as the
spiritual and legal foundation for starting and running
an enduring and happy and
family perpetually free of the encroachments of the
corrupt government and unethical family law profession.
It's main goal is to achieve "separation of family and
state" by showing people and families how to be self-governing
and entirely autonomous. The book is based entirely
on Christian principles found in the Bible which are
then supplemented with additional information only in
those areas that are important but where the bible is
silent, such as law and psychology. Even though
it is based on the Bible, we have written it to be appealing
to non-believers as well because it is as much a philosophy
book as it is a spiritual work. Two years of research
by the author went into writing the book. The
main focus of the book are Biblical models for RELATIONSHIPS
of all kinds, including:
- Human-God relationship.
- Family relationships.
- Husband-wife relationships.
- Parent-Child relationships.
- Employer-employee relationships.
- Relationship to governments and the world.
The end of the book gives
you instructions on how to get married without a state
marriage license by getting a common law marriage based
on a marriage covenant/contract. The advantage
of the marriage covenant is that state courts can't
alter or abolish or disregard or overrule the covenant/contract,
and the terms of your marriage aren't subject to the
whims of corrupt government officials passing some new
state legislation nor are they dependent on what state
or country you live in. Instead, the
the state courts have jurisdiction to enforce within
the relationship is exclusively and
the contract itself, which is fair and based entirely
on biblical Christian principles. This book is
inspired by the following scripture and painful experiences
of the author being unequally yoked to an unbelieving
and downright evil X-spouse:
"Unless the Lord [not the socialist government or
a marriage license it issues] builds the house [or the
They labor in vain who build it;"
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The Family Constitution draws on works from several prominent
Christian authors, such as:
- Dr. James Dobson of Focus on the Family Ministries, who
is a famous Christian media personality devoted to strengthening
families. The constitution has quotes from the following
products of his:
- Focus on the Family ministries radio program
- Love for
a Lifetime book, which talks about how to develop
a strong relationship that will last a lifetime.
- Love Must
be Tough book, about how to deal with difficult
types of sin in marriages such as adultery.
- Baby and
Child Care book (coauthored by Paul C. Reisser)
- The Holy Bible (New King James version).
- Chuck Swindoll's Insight for Living Ministries radio program
sermons, which are focused on spiritual development and strengthening
- John Macarthur's Grace to You radio ministry sermons,
which are focused on spiritual development.
- C.S. Lewis'
book, which is a book that is great for skeptics because in
a very orderly fashion, it uses logic and reason and philosophy
to bring atheists to the conclusion that there indeed is a god.
- The book by Bob Phillips about premarital counseling called
How Can I Be Sure?,
which is a Christian pre-marital counseling book written by
- The book by H. Norman Wright and Wes Roberts entitled
Before You Say
I Do, which is a premarital counseling book intended
- David Hocking's book entitled
Take Time, Bad Marriages Take More Time on building
a good and strong marriage (Christian).
- John Gray's book entitled
Men Are From Mars,
Women are From Venus on developing a good and strong
- Gary Stollack's book entitled
Until We Are 6,
which is an excellent secular book on psychology about how to
develop empathy and trust with your child.
- Don Dinkmeyer's book entitled
The Parent's Handbook,
which is a secular but excellent book designed to improve the
parent-child relationship and help people become better parents.
- Robert Wolgemuth's
The Devotional Bible
for Dads. It takes some quotes out of the
devotionals from that book.
- Barron's Law
Dictionary by Steven H. Gifis.
- The U.S. Constitution.
- U.S. Supreme Court cases.
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Table of Contents
Table of Authorities
1.1 Purpose of this Document
1.2 What We Believe
1.3 Family Priorities
1.4 Family Mission Statement
2. OUR RELATIONSHIP TO GOD
2.1 Role of Christians
2.2 The Holy Spirit in Christian Living
2.3 Christian Character and Behavior
in Choosing Friends
the Things God Hates
Attitude About Suffering and Problems in Our Lives
2.4 Our Family Prayer
2.5 Inspiration for the Christian
2.5.1 God's Promises
Overcome our Negative Attitude
2.5.2 Jesus Christ
is the Source of Our Strength and Self-Esteem
2.5.3 God’s Memorandum
2.6 Are You Good Enough To Go To Heaven?
2.7 The Problem Science Has with Jesus Christ
2.8 Foundational Readings
2.9 Proverbs to Live By
3. FAMILY RELATIONSHIPS
3.1 Role of Families
3.2 Getting Our Personal Act Together: First Things First
That People are Different
of Personal Growth
with Personal Problems Effectively
3.3 Rules of the House
3.4 Family Event Schedule
3.5 Importance of Unity in the Family
Protect from Disillusionment and Provide for Fulfillment
Protect from parental inattention and provide for parental
Protect from emotional insecurity and provide for emotional
Protect from relational problems and provide for healthy
to Encourage Unity in the Family
3.6 Family Meetings
of Family Meetings
to Talk About at Family Meetings
for Family Meetings
3.7 Techniques for Correction
3.7.2 What is
3.7.3 The Types
of Sin and Correction
3.7.4 Why Should
3.7.5 Who Should
Do the Correcting?
3.7.6 Who Should
3.7.7 How Should
3.7.8 Under What
Circumstances Should We Correct?
3.7.9 What Happens
When We Don’t Accept Correction?
3.8 How To Communicate and Release
3.8.1 Why We
Need Constructive Ways to Release Our Feelings
Modes of Communication
3.8.4 Why Love Letters, Prayer,
and Journaling Can Help
We Learn to Communicate
Our Past Were Different
3.8.5 The Love
1: Writing a Love Letter
2: Writing a Response Letter
3: Sharing your Love Letter and Response Letter
to Do If Your Partner Can’t Respond Lovingly
It Safe for Love Letters
to Write Love Letters
3.9 How to Resolve Family Conflicts
3.9.1 Rules For
We Argue In Front of the Children?
3.9.3 When Siblings
Engage in Combat
3.9.4 How to
Hold "Family Court"
3.10 Emotional and Verbal Abuse
3.10.1 How do
people become emotional abusers?
of the Emotional or Verbal Abuser
Inequality Versus Equality
Manipulation Versus Mutuality
Hostility Versus Goodwill
Control Versus Intimacy
Negation Versus Validation
That Most Abusers Have In Common
3.10.4 How to
Determine if Your Partner is an Abuser
3.10.5 How to
Recognize the Emotional Signs of Abuse in Yourself
of Verbal Abuse
of Verbal Abuse
of Behavioral Abuse
3.10 Sexual Morality
4. HUSBAND-WIFE RELATIONSHIP
4.1 Dating Etiquette
4.1.1 The Stages
Sexual Guidelines for Dating
of Loving Toughness During Courtship/Dating
for Parents Dealing with Dating Children
4.2 Premarital Inventory and
to ask a prospective spouse
Signs: What to watch out for
4.2.4 A Poem
for the Marriage Day
4.2.5 A Marriage
4.3 Purpose of Marriage
4.4 Role of Husbands
4.4.1 How Can
a Husband Be His Wife’s Best Friend?
4.4.2 What Does
"Love Your Wife" Mean?
4.4.3 What Does
It Mean to "Honor Your Wife"?
4.5 Role of Wives
4.6 Mission/Vision Statement for the Marriage
4.7 Marriage Event Schedule
4.8 Crucial Components
Spiritual Beliefs and Faith
Creates or Enhances Communication
4.8.5 Sex and
of Sex and Affection
Four Fundamental Laws of Sexual Satisfaction in Marriage
4.9 Basic Rights in a Relationship
4.10 How to be Best Friends with Your Spouse
4.11 Dealing with
Differences Between Men and Women
Between Men and Women
Women Can Use to Score Points with Men
Men Can Use to Score Points with Women
4.12 Money: The Great Mischief
4.12.2 How Should
We Look at Our Money?
Provide Basic Material Needs
Support the Work of the Gospel
Help Others in Time of Need
Enjoy the Blessings of God
Let Money Control Your Life!
Honor the Lord First
Stay Out of Debt
Be Content with What You Have
Depend on the Husband/father to Provide
Invest Wisely for the Future
Live by a Budget
Don’t Worry About Material Things
4.13 Marriage and Family Counseling
4.14.1 What God
says about it
4.14.2 What Kids
Should Do If Their Parents are Divorced
4.15 The Humorous Side of Marriage
Rules for Relationships
Rules for Relationships
to my Wife/Husband
4.15.6 The Five
Kinds Of Sex
4.15.8 Tips for
the Marriage Minded
4.15.9 The Marriage
4.15.10 The Lifetime
4.15.11 The Husband
4.15.12 How the
Predatory Female Uses Guilt to Manipulate Males
5. PARENT-CHILD RELATIONSHIP
5.1 Goals of Parenting
5.2 Role of Parents
5.2.1 The First
5.2.2 Role of
5.2.3 Role of
5.3 Role of Children
5.4 Characteristics of Empathetic and Effective Caregiver Communications
5.5 Importance of Encouragement
5.6 Types of Misbehavior
5.7 How Parents Can Fight Their Irrational Beliefs
5.8 Disciplinary Communications
Fostering Social Responsiveness and Competence
and Negative Reinforcement
of Adult Feelings and Expectations
of Good Disciplinary Communication
Desires for Immediate Gratification
5.9 Discipline and Problem Solving
for Identifying and the Motive of the Misbehavior and Applying
5.9.2 Who Owns
and the Consequences for Misbehavior
Through Problems by Exploring Alternatives
5.9.6 Use of
5.10 Answers to Common Questions
5.10.1 Does God
really know me?
5.10.2 Does God
want me to be afraid of him?
5.10.3 Does God
need me to pray so that he can do what he wants to do?
5.10.4 Will God
punish me when I sin—even if I don’t know I’m sinning?
5.10.5 Does God
ever get sad?
I tell the truth even if it hurts someone’s feelings?
5.10.7 Is saying
"I’m sorry" the same as repenting?
5.10.8 Is being
proud good or bad?
5.10.9 If prayer
really works, why don’t doctors prescribe it?
5.10.10 If I’m
supposed to love everybody, why shouldn’t I be friends with
5.10.11 Why do
we have to follow so many rules?
5.10.12 Why do
good people suffer?
5.10.13 Why do
I sometimes feel like God’s not there?
God hate anything?
5.10.15 If someone
hurts me, why can’t I hurt that person back? 5-9
5.10.16 Why do
we have to forgive people who hurt us?
5.10.17 How do
I love someone I don’t even like?
6. EMPLOYER-EMPLOYEE RELATIONSHIP
6.1 Role of bosses
6.2 Role of employees
6.3 The Four Types of Workers
6.4 The Nature of Work
6.5 Principles of Leadership
6.6 Mission Statement for Effective and Ethical Management
6.7 The Humorous
Side of Work
Life vs. Full-Time Job
26 Laws of Bad Management
of a Project
7. RELATIONSHIP TO GOVERNMENTS AND THE WORLD
7.1 Biblical Law: The Foundation of All Law
7.2 Natural Order
7.3 Rights v. Privileged
7.3.1 Rights Defined and Explained
7.3.2 Fundamental Rights: Granted by God and Cannot be
Regulated by the Government
7.3.3 What is the Difference Between a "Right" and a
7.4.1 The purpose of government: protection from harm and
7.4.2 How government and God compete to provide "protection"
7.4.3 The purpose of income taxes: government protection
of assets of the wealthy
7.4.4 Government as idolatry/religion
7.4.5 Socialism is Incompatible with Christianity
7.4.6 Government-instituted slavery using "privileges"
7.4.7 Civil Disobedience to Corrupt Governments is a Biblical
7.4.8 Code of Ethics for Government Service
7.5 Role of Law
7.6 Role of Politicians and Rulers
7.7 Role of Citizens
7.8 The Nature of Property
7.9 Thomas Jefferson on Property Rights and the Foundations
7.10 Testaments of Truth
7.11 The Freedom Test
7.11.1 Are You Free or Do You Just Think You Are?
7.11.2 Key to Answers
7.11.3 Do you Still Think You Are Free?
7.12 Sources of Government Tyranny
The Religion of SATAN and our government
Acts and Legal Obfuscation
and Political Warfare
Ignorance of Public Servants
7.12.7 Government Identification Numbers: Mark of the Beast
Coercion: The Enumeration At Birth Program
Coercion: Denying benefits for those who refuse to provide
Socialist Security Numbers
7.12.8 Paper Money
220.127.116.11 The Founders Rejected Paper Currency
18.104.22.168 War of Independence Fought Over Paper Money
22.214.171.124 President Thomas Jefferson: Foe of Paper Money
126.96.36.199 Wealth confiscation through inflation
188.8.131.52 The Most Dangerous Man in the Mid South
7.12.9 The Federal Reserve
184.108.40.206 The Federal Reserve Explained
220.127.116.11 Lewis v. United States Ruling
18.104.22.168 Federal Reserve Never Audited
7.12.11 Surrendering Freedoms in the Name of "Government-Induced
7.12.12 Judicial Tyranny
22.214.171.124 Conflict of Interest and Bias of Federal Judges
126.96.36.199 Sovereign and Official Immunity
188.8.131.52 Cases Tried Without Jury
184.108.40.206 Attorney Licensing
220.127.116.11 Protective Orders
18.104.22.168 "Frivolous" Penalties
22.214.171.124 Fifth Amendment Abuses
126.96.36.199 Nonpublication of Court Rulings
188.8.131.52.2 Publication Procedures Have Been Changed
184.108.40.206.3 Publication is Essential to a Legal
System Based on Precedent
220.127.116.11.4 Citizens In a Democracy are Entitled
to Consistent Treatment from the Courts
18.104.22.168.5 Operational Realities of Non-Publication
22.214.171.124.6 Impact Of Non-Publication Inside the
126.96.36.199.8 Constitutional Considerations
188.8.131.52.9 Opinions Are Necessary, Even in "Insignificant
184.108.40.206.10 Questions to Ponder
7.13 A Biblical Response to Those Who Say We Should Disarm
7.14 Living in a Pagan/Godless Culture
7.15 How to Teach Your Children About Politics
7.16 The Bill of No Rights
7.17 Am I A Bad American?--Absolutely NOT!
7.18 If Noah Were Alive Today
7.19 Prayer at the Opening of the Kansas Senate
7.20 The Ghost of Valley Forge
7.21 Last Will and Testament of Jesse Cornish
7.22 My Country?
7.23 Grateful Slave
7.24 Economics 101
8. SIN AND DYSFUNCTIONAL
8.1 Sin Defined
8.2 Sin as Spiritual Addiction/Slavery
8.3 Types of Sin
affects of Adultery
for preventing and dealing with adultery
Causes of Anger
in the Home
in the Church
in the World
to be Envied
8.3.5 Gossip and Slander
and International Problems
Warning to Yuppies
Love, and Will
Lazy to Nurture
Lazy to Enjoy
Lazy to Become
Style of Procrastination
Rid of Sloth
You’re Waiting for the Second Coming
as a Denial of Death
Insights of Feminists
to Conquer Lust
Pride Infects the Spirit
Pride Ruins Relationships
Pride Destroys Those We Love
Pride Can Destroy A Nation
Develop Healthy Humility
to submit sexually to our marriage partner
8.4 Dysfunctional Behaviors
8.4.7 Poor communication
8.5 Common Sinful Excuses to
Evade Responsibility for Sin
8.5.1 It's an
8.5.2 Its an
8.5.3 It's an
8.5.4 It's Hormonal
8.5.5 It's a
8.5.6 It's a
8.5.7 It's a
8.5.8 It's Genetic
8.5.9 It's Environmental
my Upbringing--The Way I Was Raised."
a Bad Habit"
8.5.15 "The Devil
Made Me Do It"
My ___________'s Fault"
Just the Way I Am"
8.5.18 "I Can't
8.5.19 "I Was
Born That Way"
8.5.20 "I'm Diagnosed
as Having ______."
Not Hurting Anyone."
8.5.22 "Who Are
You to Judge?"
is Your Love?"
Accepts Me, Why Can't You?"
Play God With Me."
Mutually Consenting Adults"
Not a Sin to Me"
8.6 The Solution for Sin
Advice on How to Deal With Sin
Relationship with God
8.6.3 God's Grace
To be set apart
8.6.5 The Holy
Condemns, the Holy Spirit Convicts
Conviction of Sin
8.7 Diagnosing Sin in Interpersonal Relationships
8.8 Statistics On Sin in the Bible
9. LEGAL ISSUES AND AGREEMENTS
9.2 Religious Freedom in the Public Schools
9.2.1 The First
9.2.2 The Establishment
9.2.4 Right to
9.3 Five Reasons Why Christians
Should Not Obtain a State Marriage License
#1. The definition of a "license" demands that we not obtain
one to marry.
#2. When you marry with a marriage license, you grant the
State jurisdiction over your marriage.
#3. When you marry with a marriage license, you place yourself
under a body of law which is immoral.
#4. The marriage license invades and removes God-given parental
#5. When you marry with a marriage license, you are like
9.3.6 When Does
the State Have Jurisdiction Over a Marriage?
of Marriage Licenses in America
9.3.8 What Should
9.4 Fiduciary Duty
9.5 Record Keeping
9.6 Asset and Liability Inventory at the Time of Marriage
9.7 The State of California’s Default Pre-Nuptial agreement
9.8 Questions And Answers for Prospective Spouses Who Can’t
Accept Having to Sign a Pre-Nuptial Agreement
post-divorce spousal support make marriage into the equivalent
9.8.2 Don’t the
legal aspects of marriage amount to legislating morality?
9.8.3 Do pre-nups
make divorce easier to get?
9.8.4 Are pre-nups
based on mistrust?
9.8.5 Why get
married at all if you are going to have a pre-nuptial agreement?
9.8.6 So how
do I keep my husband faithful if I don’t have a big legal
stick to beat him ruthlessly with when he misbehaves?
9.8.7 Do pre-nuptial
agreements put too much of the focus of the relationship
on selfishness and materialism?
9.8.8 Do pre-nuptial
agreements have risk reduction advantages for both spouses
over the state's default pre-nuptial agreement?
the State's Default Prenuptial Agreement Encourage Domestic
Violence or Spousal Abuse?
9.8.10 What should
I tell my fiance about why I feel the need for a pre-nuptial
I be the laughing stock of all my family or friends or coworkers
if I signed a prenuptial agreement?
9.8.12 Is it
true that most family law attorneys don't like pre-nuptial
agreements and advise against them simply because they eliminate
the need to litigate and thereby decrease profits?
prenuptial agreements supposed to give me MORE freedom and
autonomy and not less? It doesn't seem like this one does.
9.9 Pre-Nuptial/Marital Agreement